Q. I need help with post-divorce gift giving etiquette. After our divorce, my ex bought me a lovely Tiffany necklace from our children for my birthday – I was surprised because money is tight ...

My nephew and his wife don’t stay in touch, never invite me over and only show up during the holidays to collect gifts.

DEAR MISS MANNERS: We have a 1-year-old grandchild who lives 90 miles from us. Our frustration comes from their parents advising us to purchase gifts only from their curated wish list.