Gates, a member of the Red Hat Play Girls in Arlington, was known for her vitality and the enthusiasm she brought to the parties and social gatherings that are a mainstay of the women’s club.

Grove was vice queen of the Red Hat Pickle Dilly's. Skip to Article. Set weather. ... Remembering Darlene Grove: retired receptionist, Red Hat lady. Updated: Mar. 11, 2013, 11:50 a.m.